lol, i swear my house resonates. I mean its fantastic in my living room. I have the 2 8d's in front of the tv. Everthings great. Whats funny is while i have nice clean bass. If i go 2 rooms down. Keep in mind it skips a room. The room shake like i was in a small all tile bathroom with a big ol sub. I get the mudded sound and it shakes the furanture. Its wierd since the room to the right doesnt have that problem, and its closer. I dont really consider it a problem though, mearly a side effect.
Ps. If your still having trouble tuning your sub, you can allways use the ancient jedi aperion technique. Get a baseball bat (preferably wood) and just keep hitting it until it sounds right. You can confirm the results with your spl meter.
Or you can allways follow russ's advise. It sound alot more plausible.
-L3goS3rver