I can't imagine the difference between the v661 and the 805 being very large. I sure there is a difference but probably nothing compared to the 200watt setup.
Too bad I live in New England because otherwise I would offer bringing my AVR over to your place to hook it up and let you put it through the paces. My AVR is not in the same category of the equipment you are looking it but it may be an interesting comparison between the 2 still, since I am not experiencing the kind of things you are having a problem with.
Either way let us know how you make out Dan. Even though your setup isn't totally satisfying you, it is still a kick ass setup..
Rockarruda